Hi Phil,
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, loosing someone close is heartrending, especially I imagine a child. I'm glad you were able to find truth in
The Shack and it helped process some stuff. I respectfully disagree with your recommendation.
While there are important themes of healing in
The Shack, the way evil and suffering is dealt with borders on making God responsible. To paraphrase Young, God allowed harm to come to Mack's daughter in order to allow human freedom. Freedom, it seems to Young, is the greatest gift God can offer humanity. In other words God goes beyond enduring and allowing evil to facilitating it and being indirectly responsible for it's existence though the creation of freedom. However I would have thought God's righteousness is the greatest gift a loving God would offer and evil is a moral category humans activate through their anti-righteousness (sinfulness). Primarily however, it is the representation of God that is probably the most problematic idea in
The Shack. The topic of God is controversial, vital and complex. I'm no expert but I suspect neither is Young and it's disappointing to see him explore the theology of God, the unity and distinctiveness of the Trinity (sorry Andrew B., the 'gender' of God) and the way God reveals himself and relates to his people in a way that is both confusing and misleading. Like I said on my blog it's an important topic so lets get it right.
I'm happy to discuss this further however I won't be able to cite
The Shack by chapter and verse because my copy is in Tasmania at the moment.