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I lost my niece, Shanda, 6 months to the day that she was born...birthdate: 8-16-75, date of death: 2-16-76, and I think about her a lot. I wonder what she would look like, what she would be doing with her life, and it always made me very nervous when my own 2 kids were babies. (They are now 6 years old and 3 years old). There is not a lot you can do, you just try to make yourself as well-informed as possible, and keep as close a watch on your babies as you can. RIP, Shanda Suzanne, We love you.