Sometimes schools take it upon themselves to do the work normally done by parents, and paradoxically, expect parents to take on the job previously done by schools, namely, the academic skills. Increasingly the school timetable is filled up with social and emotional priorities, leaving fewer slots available for reading, writing and maths.
I worked for several years in a leafy green and often was bemused at the parenting advice dished out to parents. Are teachers better parents than the people who send kids to school?