No offense to your father, but times have changed drastically, and so has the home-buying process.
GET AN AGENT!!!! I can't stress it enough.
Even if it's not me, It doesn't matter. I'm not plugging getting
"me", but
ANYONE who knows what they are doing. It is so easy to get yourself into hot water doing a real estate transaction...especially as a 1st timer who's not "been there" before.
The best part is the fact that hiring an agent, as a buyer, costs nothing. Not one red cent. That agent is legally, morally, and ethically obligated to protect, and represent YOUR best interests. You are the boss, and it costs you
nothing. All commissions are paid by the seller. GET AN AGENT!! If you have any additional questions feel free to call my cell phone anytime at 417-343-9971. Once you have an agent, contact a lender you trust. If you don't know any lenders ask your agent whom they recommend, as they have most likely done many loans with that person. I've done nearly 100 deals with my lender, and he's never let me, or my clients down.
-Paul