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by Archie Archive • | | 0 comments
Where do I begin? When Chris and the old myfatspouse.com mysteriously disappeared from the internet last January, I just couldn't let it die. I found so much comfort in that crazy internet forum. I think it was Mary45 who pointed out that obesity is probably the most common and least talked about... read more
by Elizabeth • | | 1 comment
I am a marriage counselor and psychotherapist and I have heard this story before. I have a patient who met with his wife's therapist with his wife about 5-10 years ago and complained about her weight and was reprimanded. The wife ended up losing weight anyway and they are still married but having... read more
by Archie Archive • | | 0 comments
Another argument that the fat movement use is that by lowering bodyfat ‘you are ’. But this statement is very unfair as it is basically implying that there is no way that you as a fully thinking adult, could possibly want this for yourself. You can only NOT want it, or be brainwashed into... read more
by Yoga Nut • | | 1 comment
There is an idea in the fat movement that body acceptance means simply saying ‘I’m fat, ah well, there’s nothing I can do, and there’s no point trying anyway’. A more extreme example of this attitude is ‘I’m fat, there’s nothing I can do, and you can’t either. There’s no point trying, and if you... read more
by Archie Archive • | | 0 comments
Here's the very latest and very best from the famous My Fat Spouse Forum "Troubled" wrote: I've been married for almost 20 years. I've always battled my weight problems, successfully and unsuccessfully. I'm 5'7" tall. When we married I was probably 175 lbs. and am now approximately... read more
by Mike • | | 0 comments
Ever wonder how it's possible for so many Americans to put on a fast ten pounds during the course of the holiday season? We all see it happen to ourselves or others we know year after year, and it culminates in the same results: people are left dumbfounded wondering how they did this much damage in... read more
by Smallwife • | | 0 comments
This book full of interesting information and it's only 175 pages long. the author tells you how to breaks bad habits and gives you healthy eating strategies to help you deal with living with a diet disaster. From Good-for-Him (and You!) Recipes to The Top Ten Reasons Your Boyfriend is Adding... read more
by Susan • | | 0 comments
Stay Happily Married Show from Mon Jul 27 10:23:39 CDT 2009 Has weight become a “big” issue in your relationship? Many marriages run into trouble when one spouse puts on a significant amount of weight, as this change can have a severe impact on intimacy, control issues, and health. Dr. Susan... read more
by Archie Archive • | | 7 comments
I don't know how much loner Chris's Unfat Blog will be up on the web, but I wanted to preserve this little gem, so here it is in it's entirety! Since the world found out that Chloe Marshall would be a candidate in the Miss England beauty competition there has been quite a stir. For those of... read more
by Archie Archive • | | 2 comments
The Buddhist Mortician wrote this for the My Fat Spouse Forum First, a caveat. I am not a mortician yet... I am studying to become one. Mortuary science students are trained to treat decedents with all dignity and respect. We understand that these are people's loved ones. My father, when he... read more
by Archie Archive • | | 2 comments
Demi posted this on the My Fat Spouse Forum I'm sure your site was set up to provide an outlet for fit spouses to share frustration, but I wanted to tell you that in fact, it has changed my life as a fat wife. I'm a smart woman -- I have a degree, an amazing career. I'm a good mom to three... read more
by Archie Archive • | | 0 comments
I was the 'fat spouse' although my dh has always had a bit of a gut, even when we married. I was a 115 lb size 3. After a couple of kids, I gave myself license to balloon to a 190 lb size 18 (I'm 5'2" with a medium, muscular frame). This has been over a course of an 18 year marriage. My oldest is a... read more
by Archie Archive • | | 0 comments
The Buddhist Mortician posted this on the My Fat Spouse forum I was a fat kid of divorced parents, both of whom, went out of their ways to model how to hate life. They were not happy people. I can honestly say I never saw either of them having fun when they weren't drunk or eating... read more
by Archie Archive • | | 1 comment
I found this one when I was digging through the archives last week. I thought it might be worth a repost! Fat and Thin by denimeyedmom I have felt the need to write this for awhile. Having been an active participant in both fat and thin intamacy in the past year, it is very clear to me... read more
by Matilda Tuesday • | | 0 comments
Mojo posted this on the forum last week! I haven't been able to find the original thread, but Archie is all over it and I think we should be able to put it back up on the forum eventually. I happened to stumble upon this little gem which was among one of my first posts that I fortunately had... read more
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