I think I had better finish what I started here.
For the benefit of MASGers following this thread, I would like to outline the way that prominent evangelical egalitarian authors deal with God’s “Father”-hood, “Son”-ship and Jesus’ manhood. I am drawing together several sources here which include
Discovering Biblical Equality (a 2004 compendium of evangelical egalitarian thought), the
IVP Women’s Bible Commentary (2002), Stanley Grenz, Rebecca Groothuis, Mary Evans and Paul King Jewett. I also have access to quotes from Catherine Kroeger and Ruth Tucker via Wayne Grudem.
Sin and PatriarchyAn almost universal egalitarian position is that “Patriarchy” (meaning male headship in the family, church and society) is a consequence of sin and was absent prior to the Fall. Every instance of “patriarchy” in scripture, from the male-only Levitical priesthood to the non-gender inclusive language of the biblical authors (eg. “man” for “humankind”, “brothers” for “brothers and sisters”) results from the post-Fall degeneration. This is important for what follows.
“Father” and “Son” are metaphors onlyIn ancient patriarchal cultures, the man ruled the family, provided for it and protected it. Therefore, when the biblical writers – existing as they did in a patriarchal culture – reflected on God as a ruler, provider and protector, it was natural for them to liken him to a father. “Father”, then, is not a name which defines who God
is, but a metaphor describing what God is
like -- in the understanding of a patriarchal culture. A similar argument is used for “Son”.
Groothuis wrote:
In biblical times, “Father” was a more apt description for God than “Mother” … primarily because fatherhood presented a picture of God as a person with power and authority—which, in ancient patriarchal societies, was possessed almost exclusively by men…
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“Father” is a divinely inspired description of God, a central term used by God in revealing his character to his people. It cannot be dismissed as merely an androcentric invention of men who have sought to make God in their own masculine image. Neither, however, can we disregard the metaphorical element in this designation. “Father” is an important biblical metaphor for God, because fatherhood in many ways describes God’s relationship to his people… God is called our Father because God is like a father to us in the limited, metaphorical sense of filling many of the cultural roles of a father.
Grenz wrote:
Repeatedly the biblical authors use male images and concepts to describe God. The most vital of these is the New Testament designation of God as Father… the word is merely the best image available for conveying a dimension of the divine reality that God wants us to understand… In a similar manner Son is also a metaphor.
Jewett wrote:
In the strongly patriarchal society of Israel, where the father was the head of the family and the son the heir of the family, it was only fitting that God should have disclosed himself primarily under the name of Father (Jer 31:9; Mal. 1:6); and should have said to him who came in his name, “Thou art my Son”
Jesus’ manhood for cultural reasons onlyAgain, the patriarchal culture of the ancient world is responsible for the Son’s incarnation as a man. Jesus became a man because he entered a patriarchal culture that would not have recognised a female lord and messiah. As such, his manhood is theologically meaningless – only his human-ness matters to theology.
Groothuis wrote:
For historical and cultural reasons, it was necessary that God be incarnated as a male human. But because God is neither male nor female and is imaged in woman and man equally, it was not theologically necessary for God Incarnate to be male.
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There is no biblical warrant to impute theologically weighty implications to Jesus’ maleness… As Erickson points out, “Jesus’ maleness is accidental to his meaning as Christ…”
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Scripture has much to say about Jesus, but of his maleness there is no commentary. It simply is not significant.
Discovering Biblical Equality wrote:
What was theologically significant in Jesus’ birth and life was not that God became male but that God became flesh (Jn 1:14)… In order to be a representative human being (albeit without sin), Jesus had to be either male or female. The choice could not have been based on God’s gender, for God is neither male nor female. Nor could the choice have been based on God’s preference, for God does not favor men over women. What, then, determined Jesus’ gender? The culture into which Jesus was born is the most likely possibility… The Messiah simply had to be a man. Although it probably was theologically possible to be otherwise, it was not culturally possible.
Jewett wrote:
The conclusion that God is equally like man and woman is simply the correlate of the truth we have already espoused that men and women are equally like God, since he created humankind in his image as male and female. When one perceives the truth of these complementary affirmations, it becomes difficult to accept the position that there is some mysterious reason “in the nature of things” that requires that the Incarnation should take the form that it did. …God’s Incarnation in the form of male humanity is theologically indifferent.
We are not suggesting, however, that it was historically and culturally indifferent. Though God himself transcends all distinction between male and female… it is not difficult, given the character of Jewish culture, to perceive why God chose to enter our world as a first century Jew rather than a first-century Jewess.
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But all of this is simply to admit, in the last analysis, that there is no ultimate reason, either
in the nature of the divine Creator or the human creature, but only in the nature of the
historical situation, that both men and women should commit themselves to a man for their
salvation.
Implications…What this all means is that God’s “Father”-hood and Jesus’ man-hood are actually by-products of ancient patriarchal culture. This is because “Father” is a metaphor, just like Judge, Shepherd and Redeemer, and it is a metaphor that emerged from and made sense in a patriarchal era. Similarly, Jesus’ incarnation as a man was for the sake of a patriarchal Jewish society.
But patriarchy was a fallen human institution that the church has (in the 20th century anyway) overcome through our greater understanding of Scripture and Paul’s ‘all one in Christ Jesus’ theology. We now realise that “Father” is only a culture-bound metaphor, not a statement or definition of who God is in him(?)self. This true, divine self is as much feminine as it is masculine, for males and females image God equally, and there is no such thing in egalitarian society as “male headship”.
As biblical egalitarians, we can therefore reconfigure the very way we speak and think about God:
IVP Women’s Bible Commentary wrote:
With its masculine analogies dominating church life, the Bible’s witness to the divine feminine… lay dormant until awakened by feminist scholars. Their gender consciousness activated, faith communities debate how to regard the Bible’s privileging of the divine masculine and whether feminine and masculine analogies may be used in an equivalent way.
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Those who view the Bible’s privileging of the divine masculine as nonnormative advocate using feminine and masculine in equivalent ways. For them, the biblical pattern reflects God’s accommodation to ancient patriarchal culture, in which the masculine was used to dignify and elevate… This approach transcends patriarchal constructions of gender.
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Despite disagreement over form and frequency, those who seek to include the divine feminine in the church’s discourse acknowledge one or more of three benefits. Feminine analogies clarify who God is by enriching the church’s vocabulary, as well as clarifying who God is not by countering idolatry that results from literalizing masculine analogies. These analogies help equalize gender relationships and validate the public ministry of women by challenging patriarchal gender constructions…
IVP Women’s Bible Commentary wrote:
The deeply personal nature of the triune God reinforces the use of the biblically warranted names of Father, Son and Spirit, and challenges the exclusive use of impersonal terms… that fail to convey the relational glory of the Trinity. However, the self-accommodation of God to the names Father, Son and Spirit must be informed by God’s self-revelation and thus not reduced to human notions of individuation or sexuality. For a redeemed understanding of these terms they must be filled and transformed through the revelatory reconfiguring of them in Christ…
Footnote: There is also biblical and theological justification for arguing that God’s self revelation includes warrant for maternal appellations.
IVP Women’s Bible Commentary wrote:
To Jesus’ mother and to the believer (the symbolic mother, the one who bears fruit for God), Jesus is also saying [in John 19:25-27], “Behold your Son—behold me on the cross.” He reinforces this by a command to the disciple, including the reader, to behold his new mother—also Jesus on the cross, about to shed his blood for the new birth of the world.
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Jesus understood his death, its manner and its effect on the believer in this way (Jn 16:21-22)… The crucifixion is thus presented metaphorically as Jesus’ going away to give birth to God’s people. Like a woman in labor, he pours out his blood for the life of the world…
Grenz wrote:
The presence of both maternal and paternal metaphors in the Bible has sparked the use of such imagery in evangelical devotional literature. Hannah Whitall Smith, for example, writes, “God is not only father. He is mother as well, and we have all of us known mothers… And it is very certain that the God who created them both, and who is Himself father and mother in one, could never have created earthly fathers and mothers who were more tender and more loving than He is Himself.”
Tucker wrote:
We sing the words of John W. Petersen in worshipful praise, “Shepherd of love, you knew I had lost my way….” Would it be worse, or blasphemous, to sing something like “Mother of love…”? Both are figures of speech. But because of our fear of taking on the trappings of radical feminism or goddess worship, we dare not sing those words—except perhaps in our closets of prayer.
Kroeger wrote:
So far we have referred to God as “He” and “Him” because most of us are used to employing these terms when we think of the Holy One… This is to ignore what the Bible has to say, for God is pictured as both male and female…
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God’s likeness to a mother is an important aspect of the divine nature. Can Christians neglect any aspect of God’s being as it is revealed in Scripture? There is good biblical reason, then, to speak of God as both Father and Mother, both “she” and “he”.