Phil Weickhardt (Phool) wrote:
A frequent narrative in Perth is that evangelicals are very "judging" and "critical" and not very "loving". A bit of introspection: Does this forum provide evidence in support that belief?
Also, in response to my statement "Eirenics not polemics"
Alex M wrote:
Can I ask then: "What do you suggest then is a suitably eirenic response?
I think Phool has given the basis of what I would answer. It is possible to interact with people - even those of a different theological bent in a way that shows that you take them seriously even if you disagree with them.
In my consideration of Shepherd
on my blog I hope to have done this. And it was more difficult than I thought - I updated it a number of times after posting it. Because, as Tim says, there _is_ a lot of truth in what the Dean writes. And it is constructed cleverly and I found myself at times going "he hasn't actually said what I've assumed he's said" and rephrasing my dialogue.
Being eirenical doesn't mean rolling over and forgoing the truth - but it does mean being mindful of the way in which that truth is presented and lived out.
If you like catchphrases, let me give you a few more :-)
1) We (evangelicals) need to not just be correct but also right. In other words we need to not only make sure the substance of our theology is correct but that it is communicated in the right way. This requires wisdom etc. I like to think of the example of the prophet Nathan rebuking David - he could have made his point correctly ("you're a dirty rotten sinner - repent") but he made sure he made it _rightly_ - spinning a parable in a way that actually led to repentance etc.
2) Always treat leaders in the church as Christians. This was a catchphrase of advice from a wise someone to the young evangelical hotheads of my day (not that long ago). If in doubt, treat them like a Christian - assume that they are in agreement with the gospel truths. Don't change your tack on how you pray with them, preach to them, interact with them etc. If they are not in error, you will share gospel truths together. If they are in error, you will touch their conscience.
Too often we go in playing defensive ready to ring the heresy bell like church politics is a game of operation - BUZZ! HERETIC. Be faithful yourself, be an advocate of the beauty of the gospel - and you will win many. Be all things to all people so that by all means... perhaps?
3) Finally, some worldly wisdom from a recent situation in California. I was reading an argument between a pro-gay (anti-prop-8) advocate of violent uprising and a pro-gay advocate of peaceful protest. The point was made that in the (analogous to them) "race issue" of the 60's it was peaceful, eirenic, firm-holding-onto-the-truth that won the day. Because when people saw non-violent protestors being beaten up by police the rightness and wrongness of each party was obvious to all.
A tenuous analogy perhaps, but the same holds true here. The liberal side throws the label of "bigot, hater, cold-hearted-puritans" at us and sometimes, if we're honest, they are right! Not because of what we believe, but how we present it, communicate it and live it. And to the onlookers it just looks like a dogfight, not the persecution of the righteous!
I've had a number of moments in my own diocese when in conversation with someone of a more liberal bent I wade through the mires of misconception. The false assumptions they make about what I believe and about the attitude I have towards people is astounding and saddening. But then it's a beautiful thing when the light goes on about why I believe some things (election, total depravity and other "horrible" things) and the beauty and comfort that lies on those doctrines - they may not "sign up" but the defensive rhetoric is peeled away and the truth is more easily found. And often they become the strongest of our defenders - encouraging us to, at least, be true to ourselves! But you can't get there by quasimodoing the heresy bell cackling maniacally as it swings back and forth :-)
Truth in the right spirit, discipline with tears, gospel with passion, correction given and received with humility. Go to it!
W.