Thank you everyone, Scribbler thanks for the hug as I think you need them just as much as I do.
Joo thanks my mate one in person I promise will be soon.
Graham thanks it does make me feel better, its like a weight lifted off my shoulders, and I didn't realise that it was a weight off Steve's shoulders too as he saw the pain i was in when I got home.
Heather I will no dought be ringing you often I have just got a sick note for a month from my Dr who was also pleased I had given up, bless him he said whatever i decide to do he will back me up 100%.
My lovely Buffy, you are welcome to come over whenever you like, I will probably need a shoulder and I know what a good agony aunt you can be!!!! thank you
What goes round comes round, its a shame you cant be a fly on the wall to watch it happen.